It is common to hear people say that they hope they never raise their children like their parents did, however, more often than not, this ends up happening. If you wish to learn some of the best parenting advice, from a wide variety of sources that does not include your parents, this article is for you.
Join a breastfeeding support and parenting group prior to giving birth to help you be comfortable in your breastfeeding. Women who join a group prior to giving birth are usually much more comfortable with breastfeeding than those who didn’t. The ability to learn and ask questions prior to having a crying baby in front of you is a lifesaver.
If you are concerned about germs and stickiness on your child’s plastic and rubber toys but don’t have the time to clean and dry each one, throw them in a mesh laundry bag and run them through your washing machine with a dye-free, fragrance-free detergent. Easy in, easy out!
A great parenting tip is to show your all of your children the same amount of love and affection. If you play favoritism with your children, they will grow up to resent you, and they probably won’t get along with each other. You should love all your kids the same.
One of the most important things to remember when raising a child is to stay calm. No matter how angry or upset you get, you need to take a deep breath and calm down before you react. If you react while you’re upset or angry, you’re liable to make rash decisions that you’ll regret.
Many parents these days are not getting all the shots necessary for their child. In fact, according to a recent study, more than 1 in 10 children are not getting their shots. A part of the reason for this is that many parents grew up without any significant interaction with the diseases that children need to get shots for. They also believe that because other children are getting the shots, their child will be protected through herd immunity. However, this is just a false sense of security because these diseases can be life threatening. It is incredibly important that parents listen to their pediatrician and get their kids their shots.
You must be consistent when it comes to rewards AND punishments. If your daughter gets in trouble for coming home past curfew, but your son only gets a slap on the wrist, your daughter will see the unfairness and rebel. Treat all your children equally, both for good activities and bad ones.
Parenting isn’t a 24 hour job. Being included into a child’s life requires a level of moderation when it comes to how immersed a parent is. When children are young they require a lot of attention, but as they grow up it’s wiser to let them mature on their own. Often the children who have the least amount of social skills are the ones who have most of their decisions decided for them by others, namely their parents.
In conclusion, you want to make sure that you are doing what is best for your children. Parenting is a passion of yours and it is imperative that you are not just following what your own parents did, but are providing for your children in a way that caters to them, specifically. Use the advice in this article for your advantage.